So, let us say you are married and have been marries for 5
years now, and you have been observant. You know your husband even before you
tied the knot with him, you observed his sexual calendar and patterns. He
always comes on to you every 3 or 4 days for the pleasures of intimacy with
you, his wife and let’s assume you refused to let him have the ‘cookies’ before
marriage but after marriage you allowed him put his ‘hands in the cookie jar’.
He likes sex with his wife and no matter the stress at the office he would
always want you in 3 or 4 days after the last encounter, that is not saying
that he doesn’t want you after 1 day, but you observe his libido peaks after 72
odd hours without sexual intimacy with you. Even when he is away on long trips
out of town, he calls you and has some rather X- rated conversations with you
on the phone just to keep it spicy till he returns. You go and see a shrink
(psychologist) at some random point and you not only confess that you love your
husband but that you actually enjoy the sex (we are assuming you are being
completely honest here).
For the past 5 years, he has been the one coming on to you,
day and night , for the sex you both enjoy and on several occasions, some
beyond your control (we assume he understands those situations), you send him
away with blue balls. All these for 5 years with you rarely making any advances
on to him. Remember that he has a cycle of 72 odd hours for his libido to peak
and then all of a sudden, its 3 weeks and he hasn’t touched you and given you
the suggestive look of want, of desire, of lust and ever blazing passion. You
are holding yourself from assuming he is cheating on you (the only sane
conclusion in these modern times) but you don’t do anything to catch his eye
for another 3 weeks. Now it is 6 weeks and no form of intimacy, he has long
conversations with you but no body contact, no flame in his eye, no bulge in
his pants. What would you do?
You could assume he is cheating on you, which would explain
the loss of libido after 72 hours towards you, even if there is no proof, but
then again, he is only a man, he would always give in to his 72 hour rush one
way or the other.
You could also assume he is finally tired of trying and
waiting for you to take the lead, if you recall he never complains about your
multiple rejections and he is open about what he wants. Maybe he wants you to
meet him half way, but this is probably not the reason, just an excuse he would
come up with when you eventually confront him with the infidelity accusation,
albeit without any proof what so ever.
Whatever you assume, please, please and please, try at least
once to seduce him and see the ignited flame back in his eyes, the passion and
desire rekindled and the joy of also being wanted in his heart. He still loves
you. You know this and you in turn still love him. Make it work. SEDUCE HIM.
So as we assume this couple is married, there may be one or
two of you out there who are not yet married, don’t try this (but you don’t
listen do you?). Not all men cheat and not all girls are sluts. Try seducing
your partner once in a while. If it where you always on the receiving end,
always being seduced, you now know what to do
